8,000 miles on a Mini Journey
by Betsy Pasley
(*Apologies to John Steinbeck, who wrote “Travels
with Charley,” a book my son recommended to me last year.)
| A graphic rendering of the "house" I visited in Ithaca. |
The gauntlet has been thrown with Dave's recent
13,000-word blog post, so I will try to more briefly document my travels in my
Mini Cooper convertible “Checkers” since July 8, when we left Bayfield, WI. In
the 37 days Dave was goofing off in California, I traveled more than 8,000
miles, crossed 25 states, stayed in 14 different locations, and visited 20
friends, family members or kids of friends. Not that it's a competition...
In
a nutshell
Here's a flyover of my trip:
* From northern Wisconsin to Madison and a visit to the capital after a breakfast of duck confit hash.
* From Madison to Chicago for two fun days with friends Whitey and Dawn in a West Loop condo, visits with kids Zach and Rae, and a Cubs game at Wrigley.
* Past Cleveland, a stop at the capital in Albany, and through Vermont to New Hampshire to visit Chet and Sue, Dave's brother and sister-in-law. We had great grilled food, a movie in an historic theater, and dinner with Tim, an old work friend and his family.
* Back through Albany to Ithaca for a week with college roomies Susie and Laurel, escaping the heat to air-conditioned movie theaters, and engaging in tons of stimulating conversation.
* To Cooperstown (see below).
* Down to Westport, CT for golf and 12-foot screen baseball watching with friends Mark and Jane.
* Over to Candlewood Isle near Danbury CT for three relaxing days with S.A. friend Mary and daughter Elizabeth at their summer cottage, including uber-healthy food and a view of a rising bright-orange (also blue) moon from a paddleboard on the lake.
* South to Virginia for D.C. sightseeing and movie watching with Lorri, an old work buddy.
* Driving to Asheville to meet Robie, another work friend for a "girl's weekend."
* Back up to Charlottesville to enjoy two meals with Tex and his girlfriend.
* Finally heading home, beginning on the Blue Ridge Parkway.
* From northern Wisconsin to Madison and a visit to the capital after a breakfast of duck confit hash.
* From Madison to Chicago for two fun days with friends Whitey and Dawn in a West Loop condo, visits with kids Zach and Rae, and a Cubs game at Wrigley.
* Past Cleveland, a stop at the capital in Albany, and through Vermont to New Hampshire to visit Chet and Sue, Dave's brother and sister-in-law. We had great grilled food, a movie in an historic theater, and dinner with Tim, an old work friend and his family.
* Back through Albany to Ithaca for a week with college roomies Susie and Laurel, escaping the heat to air-conditioned movie theaters, and engaging in tons of stimulating conversation.
* To Cooperstown (see below).
* Down to Westport, CT for golf and 12-foot screen baseball watching with friends Mark and Jane.
* Over to Candlewood Isle near Danbury CT for three relaxing days with S.A. friend Mary and daughter Elizabeth at their summer cottage, including uber-healthy food and a view of a rising bright-orange (also blue) moon from a paddleboard on the lake.
* South to Virginia for D.C. sightseeing and movie watching with Lorri, an old work buddy.
* Driving to Asheville to meet Robie, another work friend for a "girl's weekend."
* Back up to Charlottesville to enjoy two meals with Tex and his girlfriend.
* Finally heading home, beginning on the Blue Ridge Parkway.
While I kept an almost daily journal, for
the purpose of this blog I'll more briefly summarize some key themes of my
journey. They were: 1) the Baseball Hall of Fame ceremony in Cooperstown, NY; 2)
tourist time in D.C. and NC and VA and historic connections between my book
reading and siteseeing; 3) meeting Tex's new girlfriend; and 4) the danger of
parking lots and driveways and some reflections on visits with friends and
family.
1.
Cooperstown
I've been contemplating this eastern trek
since 2013, and it is the reason I headed East instead of West with Dave. Three
years ago, when Astro Craig Biggio was first included on the Hall of Fame
Ballot, I told Dave that I wanted to attend the ceremony when he was inducted.
Unfortunately, nobody was voted into that class. The next year Biggio missed by
only three votes, so I suspected he would finally overcome the hurdle in 2015.
On Jan. 5 the announcement was made, and I immediately began making my plans. I
had hoped my 86-year-old uncle from Houston could have joined me, but he was
tied up with family and participating in the Senior Olympic Nationals this
summer (he was a real track and field Olympian in the 1952 Helsinki Olympics.)
I discovered later that he won the national title in his age group in Discus and came in 2nd in Javelin,
so I guess it was a productive trip!
But I digress. In the spring, as I planned
my trip, I plotted a path that would reconnect me with many special friends and
family members who I rarely see, as we are separated by thousands of miles. Highlights
of some of these visits are mentioned above and later in this journal.
On Friday July 25, I arrived at my hotel in
Utica, in advance of the Sunday induction ceremony. The Holiday Inn was about
40 miles and one hour north of Cooperstown. I don't recall if the options
closer to Cooperstown were all booked up in January, or way too expensive for
that weekend, but I suspect it was the latter. Anyway, this lodging was tucked
away in a nice residential/business park area near Utica College.
Saturday morning I made my "test
run" to Cooperstown, driving the state and county roads, parking (for $20)
on the north side of town closest to my exit, and then making the walk to the
Clark Sports complex where the induction ceremony was scheduled the next day. I
figured it was close to two miles, and was a hilly, yet pretty walk mainly
through pristine neighborhoods.
As I approached the field around 1 p.m., it
became obvious that a lot of people were staking out their seats in the free
area a day early. I talked to a staffer and a couple of Red Sox fans before
deciding to drop the day pack I had been carrying to mark my place. I then
trudged back to my car for the folding chair I would be using Sunday, and went
back to stake out a seat about 5 "rows" back from the free-area fencing.
It had a decent view of the stage but a great view of the large projection
screen that would be showing the speakers and video highlights. I was really excited
to have that stress out of the way. I then walked to Doubleday Field hoping to find
the commemorative brick my sister Kathy and I bought my father in Fall of 2001,
before his death in April 2002. Unfortunately I couldn't find it among the
hundreds there. That was probably my only major disappointment of the weekend -
and the trip.
It was pretty hot, so I decided a cold beer
would be nice, and I found myself at the lakeside hotel where Dad and his
friend Roz had hosted me on my first trip here many years ago - maybe 1995 or
so? There was a great local Pale Ale on draft, and a nice guy who I helped in getting
the bartender's attention treated me to a second one. He and his wife were
Yankee fans who come down for autographs every year.
As I strolled back down the closed-off Main
Street, I noticed hundreds more folding chairs, this time holding places for
the 6 p.m. Parade of Legends. So, after attending a ceremony at Doubleday for
two journalists (including Dick Enberg), I set my tiny folding stool behind
some chairs occupied by Astros fans. This group had come up with a tour of more
than 300 fans, and were frequently sipping from airline-sized liquor bottles.
In the next 20 minutes we became fast friends, and as the parade started up,
they invited me to stand next to them for a front-row view. It was amazing, as more
than 50 players paraded by, seated in the back of Ford pick-up trucks just 30
feet from where we were standing. I can't list them all, but they included Joe Morgan,
Whitey Ford, Al Kaline, Lou Brock, Johnny Bench, Rod Carew, Ozzie Smith, George
Brett, Rollie Fingers, Greg Maddux, etc. The loudest cheers from our area were
for Nolan Ryan and Biggio, who was serenaded as he made his way down the street
with the "B-G-O" chant I would hear many more times over the weekend.
It was a great way to end the day.
When I finally got back to the hotel, I
glanced at my phone to see that I had walked more than 11 miles that day! I
packed for a quick departure the next day to guarantee my seat wasn't taken. The
staff member I talked to earlier mentioned that some fans just toss chairs
aside to get a better seat, so he suggested I arrive early.
| Clark Sports Complex on Sunday. |
My alarm nudged me out of bed before 7 on
Sunday. After breakfast, I put the top down on the car and made my way back
south. On the walk to the field, yet another local saw my t-shirt and commented
how his town had been "infested" with Astros fans. I’m not sure I
like the term, but it was true, and I think we outnumbered the many Red Sox fans
there for Pedro Martinez. The place was starting to fill up. (Later, officials estimated 45,000 fans
attended, the most in years. Also, Astros announcers touted a Houston
contingent of more than 30,000.)
Happily, my seat was still there, but what
looked like neat rows the day before were now a mishmash of folding chairs and
blankets projecting back about 50 yards, so I had to pick my way to my seat,
hoping I didn't step on anyone along the way. The place was a zoo; lines for
souvenirs and concessions were ridiculously long, and the heat and humidity
were relentless.
At the beginning of the ceremony, the 49
returning Hall of Famers were each introduced with a brief video, and we were
about an hour in before Biggio's speech. After that first speech, I noticed a
lot of my neighbors left to find some shade, which gave the rest of us a bit
more legroom. However, since the weather was very Houston-like we Biggio fans
pretty much stuck it out. I stayed cool with plenty of water and a wet bandana.
After the festivities, I hustled back to the car to offload my things, and then
headed back to the lakeside hotel for some adult refreshment. This time I sat
between two male Houston fans on my left and a couple in Red Sox jerseys on my
right. The woman was a retired teacher from Western NY who now gives
educational presentations to kids at the HOF museum a couple of times a week.
Pretty cool job.
The drive back with my top down as the sun
was setting was spectacular. I briefly mentioned that drive in the post I put
on FaceBook that night. What I didn't mention is that I was listening to my
Baseball song playlist, including the sentimental theme from "Field of
Dreams," a movie about reconnecting with a father. I have to be honest; a few
tears were shed on Hwy 20 as I topped the hill to see the pastels of the sunset
to the backdrop of this beautiful anthem.
Here is what I posted to FaceBook that
night:
A
tribute to baseball - and life
I
was one of thousands of orange-clad fans to attend today's induction of Houston
Astros player Craig Biggio to the Baseball Hall of Fame in Cooperstown, NY. Why
did I go? Well: it was on my bucket list; Biggio is the first player from my
team to be voted into the Hall; and he is a great player and role model, having
spent his entire 20-year career with one team (unlike the other three pitcher
inductees who represented 16 teams between them.)
But
the primary reason I came was to honor my father, who was a huge baseball fan
and loved his Astros until his death in 2002.
He
took us to dozens of games in my childhood, turning my sister and me into
devoted fans of this historic game. He taught us about the game and how to
follow a team. He also inspired me to keep score, helping me understand that
each game is unique and the scorebook is where you chronicle that game's story.
But
the moment I remember most is sitting in my grandparent's kitchen one day with
my Dad when he told me why he thinks a baseball season is like life. To wit:
it's a long season; there might be some winning streaks, but you will
inevitably suffer slumps and endure "dog days" where you just strive
to persevere; you might even get injured and have to watch from the sidelines.
But when the season is over, no matter where you finish in the standings, the
question to ask is: "Did I give it my best?" Maybe it's corny, but he
believed it, and it works for me too.
My
Dad died not long after that conversation, but his lesson - and his spirit -
live on. I felt his presence at the ceremony today, and I am certain I saw him
on the way home in a spectacular sunset over the rolling hills of upstate New
York. Thanks Dad, for giving me life, and teaching me about it through this
lens of the game we love.
P.S. I always enjoy when folks comment on
my rare FaceBook posts, but two really stood out. One commented "best post
I've read all day" and another "best post in the history of FaceBook!"
What made these comments special is they are from two people who are both excellent writers and storytellers by trade. So these were amazing
compliments. I am just so grateful this story touched so many people.
2.
History, DC, and Virginia
During these travels, I was deep into one
of the three history books I was reading ("Mornings on Horseback,"
"The Bully Pulpit," and "The Big Burn.") about Teddy
Roosevelt, William Howard Taft, and the segue into Woodrow Wilson's election.
So my mind was stuck in the turn of the 20th century, where much action occurred
in some of the places I was to visit.
For example, I stayed overnight in Albany
on my way to New Hampshire, planning to visit the NY Capitol building where
Teddy served as New York state legislator and governor in the late 1800s. After
my easy visit to Wisconsin's Capitol, I expected another simple "park-and-visit"
stop, but found out you don't just park on the street to see New York's
buildings. You have to first ascertain which underground garage is open to
visitors, then how to access the plaza from an extensive underground concourse
that connects all the old and new buildings. I serendipitously stumbled onto an
18-story observation deck and got some great views of the city and complex,
including the Hudson River, the Capitol complex, and the Governor's house where
Teddy lived.
Then I found my way outside to the plaza to get some better front
views of the older capital building where he worked.
| The Gov's mansion where Teddy lived. |
After Cooperstown and a few more stops with
friends, I arrived in Virginia in early August to stay with an old work buddy.
On August 3, she and I took the Metro into D.C. to circumvent the Tidal Basin,
since she had never seen the George Mason, FDR (Teddy's cousin) and Jefferson
Memorials, and I wanted to see the new MLK statue. It was a hot, humid slog, but
the memorials are all still very inspirational, and the MLK slab design coming
out of a faux mountain was really special.
| I think I'm the only tourist who has posed with arms crossed in front of the MLK carving. |
The next day I had scheduled a private tour
of the Washington Cathedral through an old Trinity buddy, who is Provost there.
Construction of the Cathedral began in 1905, smack dab in the TR D.C. years,
but it wasn't completed until the 1970s. I took I-66 east into town, then drove
up Rock Creek Parkway to Massachusetts Ave. My first historic connection this
day was driving over the Teddy Roosevelt Island going into DC.
My tour guide was Joey from the development
department. He was a recently graduated Philosophy and Religious Studies major from
Eckert College in Florida, and a Tom Cruise look-alike in an adorable yellow
seersucker jacket. For 2 1/2 hours we scrambled up, down and all around the
complex, visiting almost all of the 11 chapels, both bell towers, many narrow outside
ledges, the resting places of Woodrow and Edith Wilson, Helen Keller and Ann
Sullivan, amazing rooftop views, and astonishing close-up views of some of the
damage from the 2011 earthquake.
| At the cathedral, we had a close-up, high up view of the building - and 2011 earthquake damage; note the missing pinnacle above. |
Among
the other unexpected discoveries: the stone cutout of Jesus at the main altar is
brighter than its surroundings, since it was carved out of Texas(!) limestone, vs.
the Indiana limestone used around it; the large wall tapestries were often used
for insulation in these cold stone buildings; the difference between gargoyles and
grotesques are that gargoyles are used as water spouts for drainage while grotesques
are carved on roof corners to prevent water from eroding the corners; the term
"stinking rich" originated from the wealthy donors who could afford
to buy a spot in the columbarium in the days before embalming; and there is a
gargoyle shaped like Darth Vader on one of the top towers (which was too far
away from us to see). I left Joey a small donation to put toward the earthquake
fund, beat the traffic back to Lorri's, and got ready for our Asheville trip to
see our other USAA friend Robie.
In Asheville we stayed at a great B&B,
where we had a two-bedroom suite with a private entrance, our own porch,
kitchen and living room. Robie and Lorri's objective in Asheville was to visit
the Biltmore Estate, which was built in 1895 (between Teddy's state and
national service). My goal was to procure an Asheville Tourists t-shirt with
what I think is one of minor league baseball's most endearing mascots (I found
out later they had changed the mascot, but we were already committed).
| The beautiful, but ostentatious, Biltmore Estate. |
We all
met our goals. Friday we toured the 250-room Biltmore house, chilled for awhile,
then went to the Asheville Tourists game. In the souvenir shop, I found the
only shirt with Ted E. Tourist, the camera-toting, Hawaiian-shirt-wearing bear,
and later got a picture with his 6-foot mascot character. Meeting this mascot seemed
appropriate, since I was finishing my third Teddy R. book.
| Me and Ted E. with the new "Mr. Moon" logo. |
The next day I had to return the favor by
following the girls around the Biltmore Gardens and shopping downtown, which is
famous for being 100% local. It was also 100% hipster.
From a historical perspective, I had
conflicting feelings about touring the ostentatious Biltmore estate on Friday,
since it was intentionally built by George Vanderbilt to be the largest house
in the U.S. during a time (not unlike today) when there was an immense gap
between rich and poor. Much of his estate was in the previously undeveloped
forests of the Blue Ridge. After George died at the age of 51, his wife
realized she needed to find a way to maintain this monstrosity, and one of her
actions in the 30s was to sell 95,000 of her 125,000 acres in the Pisgah forest
back to the U.S. Forest Service. This must have made National Forest Service
Chief Gifford Pinchot - the hero of "The Big Burn" and a secondary
character to Teddy in "The Bully Pulpit" - very happy. It was a
beautiful estate, and it does offer a tranquil setting in the midst of the
Asheville sprawl.
The last connection to my history books was
my visit to Woodrow Wilson's birthplace and museum in Staunton, VA. While
waiting for Tex and his girlfriend to return to Charlottesville for law school,
I drove the 8 miles from my hotel to this quaint little town to take the tour. There
were a few original Wilson mementoes in the house, including the original crib
for "Tommy," as he was known until he changed his name to Woodrow at the
age of 21. So in one week I had seen Woodrow from cradle (in Staunton) to grave
(his tomb at the Washington Cathedral.)
After reading these books and visiting
these sites, it easy to draw corollaries to current events. In the turn
of the 20th century, there was also a yawning "wealth gap." and the
government under Teddy, William and Woodrow made many substantive changes that resonate
today, including trust-busting, food inspections, 40-hour work weeks, child
labor laws, the income tax, and popular election of senators. I think they all
would have preferred to make headway in women's suffrage and race relations,
but - regardless of your political leanings - it's hard to ignore these other
advancements. The other similarity is the rifts in the Republican Party in 1912
that caused Teddy to run against Taft in the new Bull Moose Party, which
resulted in a split vote that propelled the Democrat Wilson into office.
Although that heralded the end of Republicans as Progressives, it still feels familiar
as we watch the "establishment" branch challenge the ultra-conservatives
in today's Republican politics.
3.
Seeing Tex, meeting the girlfriend, and motoring the Parkway
| Are Tex and Rachel preparing for their second year of Law School, or checking FaceBook? |
At the beginning of the summer, Dave and I
noticed some FaceBook pictures featuring Tex and a brunette, who at first was acknowledge
by him as "just a friend." It didn't take more than a few
conversations to pick up on the more serious nature of his relationship with
fellow UVA law student Rachel. In a matter of weeks we discovered he had bought
a plane ticket from Denver to visit her in Philadelphia, the location of her
summer internship. We also learned she is visiting our house this coming holiday
season, they are making plans to be in the same city for internships next
summer, and her parents were going to be in town Aug. 10 to help her move in
and go to dinner with Tex. When Tex invited me to join them, since I would be
in the East Coast, it didn't take long for me to adjust my schedule. The visit
did add 540 miles to my overall mileage, but it was well worth it.
Rachel's mom didn't make it after all, but
I did get to meet Rachel and her dad, Mark. He took a $5 Metrobus from NYC to
Philly to drive Rachel and her cat Ginny back to Charlottesville. Rachel was
what I expected after seeing her on FaceBook: cute, smart, fun and full of personality.
Both she and her dad had a good sense of humor. Mark and I split the dinner
check; it's very natural to treat our 26-year-old "kids." I was also
able to visit with the couple for brunch the next day on the pedestrian mall,
before they headed off for a camping trip, and I reviewed my options for the
three-day drive home.
| Another boring view for me and Checkers on the BRP. |
One of the first things I considered when I
purchased my new Mini Cooper convertible last October was using it on a fun curvy
road on a pretty (not too hot) day. I was hoping the drive East might include
some opportunities, and it did. However, I knew my best bet would be driving on
parts of the Blue Ridge Parkway on my way home. Since it starts just out of
Charlottesville, I decided to get on it, and - based on how it was going - stay
or get off when I wanted to go more than 40 mph. The two previous times I've
been on the BRP have been either rainy or foggy, so I wasn't sure what to
expect. This day (Wednesday, Aug. 12) was spectacular. I drove 341 miles in
about 10 hours, using all my clutch-less manual gears and the "Sport"
button to give me tighter steering. I saw very few cars, a handful of
bicyclists and motorcyclists, and zero 18-wheelers, Golden Arches, or
billboards. If I had stopped at all the beautiful overlooks I never would have
made it in one day. This diversion added a few hundred miles to my next two
days, but what a delight.
4.
Final random thoughts on friends and parking lots
First, let's talk about where the real
dangers are in driving. By the time I arrived in Ithaca on July 19, I had
driven 5,000 miles very safely over many county and state roads, toll roads and
Interstates at high speeds. But I didn't count on the danger of the parking lot
or driveway. One day in June on our way to Wisconsin, while pulling into a
parking lot at the Minuteman Missile NHS in South Dakota, I heard a horn
blaring behind me. Dave was in his truck following me into the lot and saw a
car backing into me from the left. Since I was looking to my right to start my
turn, I didn't see him. The driver of the black Charger stopped, but not before
I felt an ugly "crunch" on my front left bumper. This car isn't even
8 months old and this is how it gets its first scar? We all parked safely and
the driver got out and immediately started apologizing - as he should. I was
relieved to see that the impact on my car was mainly to the black rubber
bumper, with a small crack to the yellow plastic signal light. He had a bit
more damage, and after some back and forth between agents and my decision not
to get anything fixed, we closed out our side of the claim. "Good," I
thought to myself, "That gets the obligatory vehicle disaster out of the
way for the summer."
| Laurel and I in Ithaca with our (luckily) undamaged Mini Coopers. |
Fast-forward 5 weeks and another 2,000 miles, and we
are in Laurel's driveway backing out in her Mini wagon. Our friend Susie and I
had parked our cars on the left side, seemingly out of the way. As she backed
up, we heard a faint" clunk" and Laurel exclaimed "Oh my god, I
forgot your car was parked here!" We got out, and the black bumpers
(luckily) were pretty crammed together. I got in Checkers and delicately pulled
away. No real damage again, but now I'm starting to get waaayyyy paranoid about
parking lots and driveways!
Now, about the blessing of friends. Aside
from the baseball ceremony and fun sightseeing visits, the real highlight of
this trip was the privilege of staying with special friends and relatives on
this journey. I found some houses were uncluttered and sterile, others were
tastefully designed, and others were casual and inviting. But all featured
gracious hosts, stimulating conversation, and great entertainment. Some came
with cute pets or even cuter kids. These were all folks I only see once in a
decade (or longer) so it was an amazing time. I am also so energized when I see
how the kids are growing up. To a person, each is a distinct personality who
has so much talent, and so much to contribute to this world. Spending time with
these kids - from 12-year girls to college kids to young adults - is so
inspiring, and makes me feel better about the future.
In fact, one specific visit merged family and friends. While in New Hampshire with Dave's brother and sister-in-law Chet and Sue, I also had hoped to connect with a work buddy who moved up north six years ago. Instead of my having to make separate trips, my generous in-laws invited Tim, his wife and daughter to an amazing cookout on their deck. Seeing family, friends, and kids sharing conversation, artwork, and tractor-driving made for a special evening.
Love to all! I’ll leave you with two
memorable snapshots.
| A summer sunset over the lake at Candlewood Isle in Connecticut. |
| It was a beautiful view of downtown Chicago from my friend Whitey's 5th-floor balcony. |